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Watching My Toddler Grow Taught Me About Spiritual and Personal Growth

Watching My Toddler Grow Taught Me About Spiritual and Personal Growth The other day, I found myself staring at my daughter, Buttercup, wondering, When did she get so tall? I’m with her every day, yet I never noticed when she grew by an inch or lost her adorable chubbiness to toddler movements. Buttercup has gone from being a baby to a lively toddler, and it’s been one of the most rewarding—yet puzzling—experiences of my life. It feels like just yesterday she was learning to crawl, and now she’s running around, exploring the world with curiosity and independence. This reflection made me wonder: Where was I while this growth happened? Why didn’t I notice it? Of course, my thoughts quickly shifted to spiritual growth (because I'm Bibi) and how invisible it often feels. Whether physical, spiritual, or personal, growth happens gradually and often feels unseen until we pause and look back. In today’s post, I’ll explore how raising Buttercup has helped me better understand spiritual gr...

Nest With Me: Preparing for Baby Girl in a Cozy Space

Nest With Me: Preparing for Baby Girl in a Cozy Space Preparing for a new baby is an adventure in itself, but doing it in a two-bedroom apartment with about 800 square feet? That’s a whole different level of creativity! With limited space, lots of love, and a pink-and-grey theme in mind, we’ve been busy making our cozy home ready for our baby girl’s arrival. A Little Space, A Lot of Love Our apartment may not be huge, but every corner is filled with heart and purpose. The second bedroom will remain a guest room for now while out little one stays in our room for a considerable while. But we've been able to carve an area and transform it into a nursery, and the theme—pink and grey—adds the perfect touch of sweetness and serenity. . The Real MVP: My Friend Diane I owe so much of this nesting success to my amazing friend Diane. She’s basically a home organization guru thanks to her extensive knowledge gained from watching countless home reorganization videos. Diane has a knack for max...

Our Positive Birth Story: Induced at 37 Weeks and Blessed with a Beautiful Experience

Our Positive Birth Story: Induced at 37 Weeks and Blessed with a Beautiful Experience I’m thrilled to share our positive birth story , a journey that was both surprising and beautiful. If you’re searching for insights about being induced, labor experiences, or inspiration for your own birth journey, I hope this story brings encouragement and joy. The Unexpected Start: My Water Broke at 37 Weeks At just 37 weeks pregnant , I was still finishing up the last-minute preparations for my baby’s arrival when life decided to surprise us— my water broke ! I hadn’t expected my pregnancy to end this early, so I quickly sought advice from my medical team. They decided I would need to be induced , as my body wasn’t progressing naturally. I had heard mixed stories about induction, so I prayed and trusted that everything would go smoothly. Induction and a Beautiful Birth Experience To my surprise, being induced was much smoother than I anticipated. My care team was incredibly supportive, ensuring I f...

The Most Special Baby Surprise: A Celebration of Love, Laughter, and Pink!

The Most Special Baby Surprise: A Celebration of Love, Laughter, and Pink! There are moments in life that remind you just how loved and supported you are—and my baby surprise was one of those unforgettable moments. From the laughter, joy, and heartfelt wishes to a sea of pink décor, every detail was perfect. I felt so cherished by my incredible friends and family, and it’s a day I’ll treasure forever. A Baby Shower Filled with Love and Tradition In my culture, baby showers are more than just a celebration—they’re a collective expression of love and community. True to tradition, my amazing friends took the lead in organizing and paying for the event, leaving me in awe of their generosity and thoughtfulness. The only thing I requested? That they make it as pink as possible to celebrate the little girl we’re so excited to welcome into the world. And they delivered! From pink balloons and flowers to pink desserts and drinks, it was like stepping into a cotton candy dream. Family Love from...

Is a Maternity Photo Shoot Worth It?

Is a Maternity Photo Shoot Worth It? Why Choosing a Maternity Photo Shoot at Ivori Studios Was Worth It  When I first considered doing a maternity photo shoot, I hesitated. Between the cost, the distance, and the many other demands of preparing for my baby, it felt like a luxury I might not need. But deep down, I wanted to capture this fleeting, beautiful phase of life—one that I’ll never get back. After much deliberation, I booked a session at Ivori Studios in Mississauga , and I can confidently say it was one of the best decisions I’ve made. The Experience: Feeling Loved and Nurtured From the moment I walked into Ivori Studios, I felt cared for. The team didn’t just treat me like a client; they treated me like a queen. They understood the emotions, vulnerability, and beauty of pregnancy and ensured I felt nothing short of extraordinary. Every step of the process was tailored to make me feel at ease and truly celebrated. The Package: Everything Thoughtfully Included One of the sta...

Are Babymoons Still Worth It? My Relaxing Escape to Hilton All-Inclusive Cancun

Are Babymoons Still Worth It? My Relaxing Escape to Hilton All-Inclusive Cancun As I entered the final stretch of pregnancy, the idea of a babymoon lingered in my mind. Was it worth the effort, cost, and planning? Would I even enjoy it, given how tired I already felt? Ultimately, I decided to go for it, choosing the Hilton All-Inclusive Cancun as our destination. Spoiler alert: it was absolutely worth it—but not in the way I initially imagined. Redefining the Babymoon: Prioritizing Rest Over Activities Unlike the packed itineraries I’d planned for past vacations, this trip was all about rest . No excursions, no long days of sightseeing—just pure relaxation. I gave myself permission to listen to my body and do exactly what felt right: sleeping in, lounging in bed, and savoring the peace of uninterrupted quiet. This mindset turned out to be exactly what I needed. The cozy Hilton suite became my sanctuary, with its plush bedding, blackout curtains, and an endless supply of room service....

Our fun Gender Reveal

 Fun Gender Reveal It's the big day! In this video, we're going to be sharing our fun gender reveal with you all. Watch as we surprise our friends and family with the gender of our upcoming baby! We hope you enjoy watching our fun gender reveal as much as we did filming it! We can't wait to hear what you think, and whether or not you guessed our secret correctly! Thanks for watching! We can't wait to see what our little one will be like! Let's be friends on social media; Twitter: https://twitter.com/bibilamour04​ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bibilamour04/​ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bibilamour04? Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Bibilamour04/ Website: https://www.bibilamour04.com/

Breaking Free: Finding Self-Worth Beyond a Married Man

Loving someone who is committed to another can be an emotionally difficult journey, and as Christians, we honor the sanctity of marriage. In this episode of Ask Aunty Bibi, we discover the strength to let go, find hope, and embrace a renewed sense of purpose through our faith in God's plan for our lives. Whether you are currently navigating unrequited love with someone else's spouse or have experienced it in the past, we hope this video brings comfort, hope, and a renewed sense of purpose as we seek to embrace God's plan for our lives. 🙏 Join the conversation in the comments below, and remember, you are never alone in your journey. Let's be friends on social media; Twitter: https://twitter.com/bibilamour04​ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bibilamour04/​ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bibilamour04? Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Bibilamour04/ Website: https://www.bibilamour04.com/ #AskAuntyBibi #ChristianPerspective #MovingForwardInFaith